Sleepless On Valentine’s?
There could be many reasons why some people would be sleepless on Valentine’s. It could be that an affair has gone astray or a lover’s unfaithfulness has come out in the open. It’s a sickening thought especially if all of these happen in the month of love. I remember lines in a song, “why do people fall in love and end up crying, why do lovers walk away from themselves when their hearts are breaking, why does loving sometimes never stay long”. This might be the case for few people but some are just not in the hype of having a special someone on Valentine’s because Mr. Right or Ms. Right is still on the loose, waiting to be found. Well, whatever excuse one might have to be sleepless on Valentine’s there’s no reason to fret anyway because sooner or later love would just pop right out of the blue. Meanwhile, here’s something for you to do to keep yourself from sobbing and feeling hopeless:
Indulge your appetite in something red like this strawberries. You can buy it frozen or fresh and on Valentine’s day when you have no one to go out with or dine with, you know what you’ll do with the strawberries. Chop! Perhaps a bottle of champagne will bring out the taste even better with some heart shaped-strawberries. Then when you’re done preparing your strawberries, don’t lurk in the corner with it but go watch a romantic film like Sleepless In Seattle or Breakfast At Tiffany’s. Surely, after watching these films you sleep in what you thought a nightmare and wake up the next day feeling good because Valentine’s Day is over, hahaa!
Love Sparks This Month Of Love
It’s February and it’s the month of love for most people who are engaged in a relationship. Even those who are not, surely feels the need to love and be loved. For romantic men and women, giving flowers and gifts to their special someone is the sweetest thing in mind. I’m sure everyone of us knows the concept of falling in love and everyone of us has his or her own meaning of love. Love is profound in a sense that it begins a relationship, it is never determined to stop a relationship. It is for the two people in love to work it out for a sensible relationship to last.
Where love is the subject, there’s always the relationship to discuss. If you are married like in my case, or in a relationship, you would probably agree when I say that there’s no successful relationship without working at it. I’ve been married for almost eight years now, and the fact that me and hubby Leif are from different planets, Venus and Mars constellated :lol: I could share my humble opinion on maintaining a rock-solid relationship.
1. Give time for your relationship. It is always a good idea to spend quality time together. Leif and I love to watch DVD films together. It is our way of musing the night away with sweet pastries and coffee or wine.
2. Be kind to each other. Little kindness done with ardent willingness counts a lot. Peeling the potatoes for him while he makes our dinner is better that letting him do all alone.
3. Resolve conflict quickly. Misunderstanding and petty quarrels arise in every relationship. The more it lingers, the more it hurts. It’s important to talk about it and find a resolution quickly. I don’t even remember the last time we quarrel
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4. Do things together as a couple. If both of you like dancing or singing, go to dance lesson together or do some singing gigs. We both like computer, music and books. But travelling is the best thing that we could do together.
5. Understand the differences. We are all born with differences, whether we are of same culture or not. To understand each other’s differences counts a lot in a relationship. In my case, I understand how Leif snores in bed and this drives me up the wall. I’m sure he understands too why I have hard time getting up in the morning, lol!
People involved in a relationship have always a reflection of what really matters in love. While love sparks this month of love, it always sparks through the years when relationship is being worked out to something good.







